“The three main things that got me through cancer (were) my faith, my family and my love for softball,’’ said Massei, who currently works as a first-grade teacher in Menifee, California.
The way Massei was treated by her Wisconsin teammates after her diagnosis spoke volumes about the way Healy still runs her program 14 years later.
“Some of the girls were coming out for the Rose Bowl game,’’ Massei said, referring to the 2011 game pitting the Badgers vs. Texas Christian, “and had an extra ticket and asked me to go with them.’’
Told that such a thoughtful gesture said a lot about her teammates, Massei said, “It’s a family.’’
Cassandra Darrah was one of those family members, an award-winning pitcher from Iowa.
“Mary was a very compassionate teammate who was truly interested in how you were doing,’’ Darrah said. “Off the field, she was sweet and you would never guess she was the kind of player she was. On the field, she seemed to flip a switch and became an incredibly gritty and clutch hitter and outfielder.
“I will always remember how much adversity was thrown her way and how she battled through each time.’’
Massei said the phone call from UW athletic director Chris McIntosh informing her of her hall of fame nomination was memorable for a lot of reasons, but one stands out.
“It was an honor I didn’t expect to come my way,’’ Massei said.
BEST OF THREE
One: Healy routinely marveled at what Massei was able to do at the plate given her diminutive size. During her UW career, Massei managed to lead the Badgers in everything from hits, batting average and total bases to on-base percentage, runs scored and slugging percentage at some point in her career.
“She was a phenomenal player the minute she stepped on campus,’’ Healy said. “She’s a tough kid. When you see her numbers you just assume she’s this giant. She’s just a small, fiery competitive lefty.’’
Two: Massei was asked what she’s most proud of from her time at UW.
“Overcoming adversity,’’ she said quickly. “Being able to be as successful as I was at Wisconsin knowing I was a cancer survivor. I always felt like I had to overcome something. Yes, I’m a very positive person, but I would not have been able to do that without leaning on my team.’’
Three: Healy told this poignant story about Massei and motherhood. It seems appropriate that both women have two daughters.
“She played for me when I was pregnant with my daughter Maeve, who’s now 12,’’ Healy recalled of Massei. “When she was going through all these cancer treatments, I remember her coming in and saying, “They’re talking about my ability to have kids. I’m so young and it’s scary. This is really going to decrease my chances of being a mom someday.’ I definitely cried when she called to say she was pregnant. It was so meaningful to have her have a family.’’